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Personal
Activity
Going out to bars more
frequently for 'meetings.'
Drinking habits change to include
greater and more frequent
consumption of alcohol.
Cheater stays out later and might
claim that he/she needed to sober
up.
Says they're visiting a sick
friend.
Changes in appearance.
Cheater spends more time
exercising.
Flesh marks, such as hickeys,
pinching bruises, scratch
marks.
Cheater asks more about your
schedule and the questioning
seems awkward or out of
context.
Personality
Seems more rushed to get out at
times.
Cheater is emotionally
distant.
More arguments, especially that
are initiated by petty or
unjustified complaints.
Cheater is very defensive about
being questioned about
infidelity.
Cheater avoids talking about
infidelity or says they are more
stressed.
Cheater asks about their own
performance in bed.
Cheater says 'I need more
space.'
Computer-related
Web-based e-mail with different
addresses.
Very private with computer.
More time on the computer while
faithful heart is sleeping or in
the shower.
Strange e-mails or e-mail
address. Other person might use
opposite sex name as a decoy to
trick faithful heart.
Pictures of people or person you
don't know in a hidden folder or
directory.
Work-related
Cheater becomes unavailable at
work.
Cheater is 'busier' or works
later or has different hours.
Financial
Unexplained payments on credit
card.
Different gas stations on charge
statement than usual.
Hotel charges.
Uses cash more
frequently.
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Telephone
Hang ups when faithful heart
answers the phone.
One ring only and then cheater
suddenly gets on computer (code
that there is an e-mail or chat
session waiting).
Cheater is often found standing
on the side of the house or some
other hidden area talking on the
cell phone.
Cheater leaves the area to take a
phone call -- even when its not
noisy.
Certain phone number is itemized
every day and several times per
day on cell bill.
Itemization of cell phone bill is
discontinued.
Second unknown cell phone is
found.
Possession of a phone calling
card.
Caller ID/Address Book entry
shows a female or male name as
recent call, but the caller
sounded like the opposite sex of
the person in the recent
call/address book entry.
Car
Car is found parked in a strange
place.
Extra mileage on car.
Less mileage on car.
Suspicious items found in
car.
Car is not at work when cheater
says they are at work.
Around the house
Less time spent for cleaning or
picking up around the house.
Perfume smell on clothes.
Clothing stains.
Cheater starts doing their own
laundry.
Suspicious items found around
house or in clothing pockets.
SOME OF THESE SIGNS alone
or isolated can be innocent, but
if several of these signs are
occurring, beware.
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